We Believe You is a movement recognizing the positive impact of believing and supporting victims and survivors of sexual violence. Studies show that a primary concern for those disclosing abuse is the fear of not being believed or receiving a negative reaction. As a result, many victims don’t report their abuse or receive the help they need. By participating in We Believe You, you are directly impacting both the survivors in your lives and those who you have never met.
The Scope of Sexual Violence
An American is sexually assaulted every 68 seconds.
More than 2 out of 3 sexual assaults go unreported.
“The first and most impactful thing you can do is create a safe space for survivors to disclose abuse. Your job isn’t to investigate their story or seek justice for them. Your role is to listen and say, ‘I hear you, and I support you.’ Your reaction in that moment will make a huge difference in the trajectory of their healing.”
—Elizabeth Smart, Founder
“The first and most impactful thing you can do is create a safe space for survivors to disclose abuse. Your job isn’t to investigate their story or seek justice for them. Your role is to listen and say, ‘I hear you, and I support you.’ Your reaction in that moment will make a huge difference in the trajectory of their healing.”
—Elizabeth Smart, Founder
How You Can Help
Donate
One hundred percent of donations made to We Believe You will go toward education and healing programs for survivors of sexual violence. The healing process is unique and personal for everyone, so we have different programs for different needs. Any donation, small or large, is greatly appreciated and will make a huge impact.
Educate Yourself
Education is the first step to understanding the problem and making a difference. The best way to learn is by listening to survivors—and that’s what We Believe You is all about. Through this movement, survivor leaders share their perspectives and educate on how to support victims of sexual violence. Subscribe to our emails and follow us on social media to learn more.
Spread Awareness
We want to create a more compassionate society for victims and survivors to use their voice and make an impact. To change the narrative surrounding sexual violence, we need to be willing to have these critical conversations. Help us raise awareness and represent the movement by wearing We Believe You apparel. All sale proceeds support our education and healing programs.
FAQs
Why was WBY created?
We Believe You was created in response to the many survivors and victims who reach out to ESF and to Elizabeth herself. Many of these survivors disclose abuse for the first time and feel like they have nowhere else to go. WBY is designed to amplify survivor voices by giving them a safe space to share their stories.
How often does sexual abuse happen?
According to RAINN, a person is sexually assaulted every 68 seconds in the U.S. Every nine minutes, that victim is a child.
How common are false allegations of sexual abuse?
False allegations are rare, but they do happen. False allegations have serious consequences for everyone involved and should be handled through the proper authorities.
How do I respond when someone discloses sexual abuse?
Your role is to provide a safe space for them to disclose and share their experiences. Your job is never to investigate their story or “fix” the problem.
What language should I use to respond to a survivor?
The language we use has a real impact on a person’s healing. In your response, try to avoid language that might place blame on the victim. Examples: “What were you wearing?”, “Were you drinking?”
How can I support a survivor or victim of sexual violence?
Every person’s story is different, and they will have different needs. Listen closely to the survivor on how you can support their healing journey.
What resources are available for victims and survivors of sexual violence?
If you or a loved one has been affected by sexual violence, the National Sexual Assault Hotline, operated by RAINN, is available at 800-656-HOPE or via live chat at rainn.org.
National Sexual Assault Hotline:
Call 800-656-HOPE or visit rainn.org.